cuty77 and for all those that read my last post.. Forgive me I am sorry to sound so mean, Hope is something I don't have in life anymore. I live for my kids and have sence I was 17. I don't eat unless my kids are full. I don't do anything for me. And no matter what I do it is never good enough. I am a stay at home mom by chose and I am starting to think I made the wrong chose. I am not strong enought, and have watched life pass me by for so long. I am sorry to all that still have hope and believe that god will help or listen. Just becouse I have lost hope in myself and god, don't mean I have the right to say a thing to any of you. So again sorry for being such a downer about life...

Hello Holly hun, And you are right and you are wrong.. This site is here for people to wine about there problems. I have gone over and over this site and most of what is listed is not worth it.. Half are scams, the other half are all over welmed and can't help honest hard working people like me. This site does a better job of not making me feel like I am the Only one thats going throw Hard times then anything. I NEEDED HELP BIG TIME and did I get the help from This site or the people reading this stuff. NO I GOT THE HELP FROM MY SELF... and begging people if they knew where to go.. You want a grant don't read any of the crap listed here cus it all cost MONEY to get.. I can say if you want a load of worthless info sure read on... there is TONS of info here.. BUT IF YOU ARE BROKE AND HOMELESS THIS IS NOT THE PLACE TO LOOK... I am still in need of help... I am now 6 month behind in my house payments. I am making the payments the best I can. But NOONE is going to give me a loan, money, or Help to get ME out of this MESS... So Holly get over yourself. this is a place to tell people your feelings and thats about it.. I am just over poverty and WELFAIR WONT HELP ME there for no other charity will help me and my family.. Yet when I lose my house OH I BET WHEN IAM HOMELESS I MIGHT GET THE HELP ME AND MY KIDS NEED. I truely Hope and pray for all of you but if you don't get off your butts and start asking for help in your cities then that is the start of your problems..SITING HERE ONLINE DOES NOTHING TO HELP YOU.. If you people think a reader is magicly going to read your post and send you the money, help, or ways to get the help you need then you are a fool.. I mean come on... Here you go then I need help saving MY HOUSE FROM FORCLOSER, getting out of depth and making Christmas for my 3 kids this year.. cus if you people don't help I CAN NOT BUY THEM A THING... Now lets see how many True Santas there are out there... OH WAIT I KNOW THERE ARE NONE OF THEM.... Yes I am harsh but I am a 33 year old mother of 3 and have been struggling to just make ends meet my HOLE life.. There is no magical fairy to come and make all your troubles go away.. Oh and just so you all don't think I am a nasty witch. I do donate all I can to people... When My kids grow out of something I pass it on.. I am always saving things to give to others.. I don't ask or take things from people becouse I always think there might be someone in more need then me...

Oh my lord there is soo many ppl in need it is sicking... USA land of the free and really poor... lol I mean we as people lost sight in what is really important.. Family, Friends, I mean you have some people in the USA that have more money then they could spend in a life time and others dieing of hunger... Yes I am poor and I am ALWAYS in need of money. but I also do all I can for others.. If I don't need it I give it to someone that does. I wish I was rich I would help those that I could.. I will say a pray for all of you but I feel god don't or wont help. and most people only care about them selfs. Good luck to all of you. And most of all get out there, get a job no mater what job it is. The only person that can help you IS YOU. Take it from me.. I needed help and got NOTHING from no one.. Not even welfair would help.. lollol I make $200. dollars a month more then there income guild lines. So if you want real help Get out there and do it for yourself...

Hello I am a 33 year old mother of  three.  We are with out gas and soon the eletric will be out also.  I am trying to find a job, and a car  Any old junker will do... I can't get a job with out a car...  I wish I could find some help somewhere...  I would do just about anything for the help that is needed.    I  want to know how ppl are given cars to drive for advertisment.   thanks for listening to me.

I have been reading all that I can on this site and others.   I have to say the BEST HELP is  YOU HELPIING YOURSELF... In my area 211 is one way to find help... I can say that most charities are overwelmed at this time.  I am a stay at home MOM of 3 and will say that we struggle to make ends meet but I don't think I would have it any other way..   I know my kids are Well taken care of and are not in any trouble..  I have a 16 year old and a lot of her friends do drugs...  Her friends parents both work full time jobs and can't be around as much as I can.  I am starting to look at life like this,   So what I can't buy them the best christmas ever,   So what that we never have any savings,  and will never be able to go on vacation.  My kids have all they should need a mom and dad working hard to make sure they don't get into trouble and grow up to good responible adaults...  I am sick of asking for help.  I would rather live on the streets then ask anyone to help me knowing they will just trun around and say no again..   Life only help those that helps themselfs...   

Hello hun the only place I can tell you to go is to Welfare PRPC, salvation army and red cross, or 211. and I am sorry to say most of these place are out of funding. This year has been really hard for more then Half of americans. I know I am one of them. My gas was shut off. and me and my 3 kids have to boil water just to take a bath and have no Heat. Thank god the rest of my house is eletric or I would not be albe to feed my kids. I will say I will pray for you. And maybe you can pray for me. And maybe God will hear us. But honestly I think we are on our own.

Hello all well this is my last post here prob. I am not having anyluck finding help for NO ONE. I am no asking for hand out no more. I went to all the church groups and goverment agancies. No luck.. America is soo poor that most of us can't not afford to pay our bills. And most of the places that give help are always with out money. If I lose my house and job I might get Help then and only then. LOL I am sick of life and this crap.

poormommytoG pay as much as you can and most companies cant say anything.. As long as you are making some kind of payment. Good luck and best wishes. The one thing I found out these passed few weeks is, More then half of the us is at poverty state. And there is not much help out there.

Thank you for that phone number. I have gone to alot of places looking for help and they are one of the last I will try. I am still waiting to hear from them. It is really sad tho. We are not that much in trouble yet so no one will help. We still own our home and my husband has a job, So no one will help us. All the goverment help are either not taking applacations or we have a home still so they wont help. When we become Homeless they will help but by that time I feel it will be too late. I am starting to think we are just over poverity so NO ONE will help. I am starting to think my kids would be better off with out us. Even tho we make ok money, say about 25,000 a year. I am not sure how much more I can take. My mential state wont last long, I am getting to depressed to care. Calling all over this sad country for help just to be told No is killing me. I am done trying to ask for help. I am getting a part time job but that wont be enought. Can't get a full time job I have no money to pay for day care. This life is getting old and I am losing all hope. Thanks any ways for the # mary alone we will see if I ever hear from them.

Hello I am a mother of 3 kids and a wife.  My family and I have been going throw some really hard times.   We have no heat in our house,  and the house payment is behind.   I am trying to find ways  to get out of deth.  I can not apply to welfare,  we are over their money limits by $150.  I want to get a job but at this time we own one car that is not running very good at all.  It is so unsafe to drive don't take my kids no where unles I have to.   I am so lost  I really don't know what to do.  Life is getting to be too much for us to deal with.   And with out me and my husband the kids have no one.   I am praying to god all the time to help,  give me the strangh to keep going.   If there is anyone that can help I would be more then greatful...  Best wishes to all out there in the same boat I am in.  If I ever win the latto I will help someone in return..

Thank you worried12, Yes churches and the salvation army is all I have been told to try also. I did try to get a one time help from welfair but I don't think I will get it, becouse I am about $150 dallors over the poverty limits. LOL yes that is sad. I make a joke to my husban all the time, "If I devorce you I could get food stamps and all the rest." I wish you all the best, and will say a pray for you. Good luck

Hello Slowboy I wish you the best of luck. I know what your going throw, my dad has the same thing.(SLEEP APNEA) It is scarry to watch him sleep also. I hope the goverment helps you out soon. Try the breat right strips with the machine they give you. I know the machine is loud as heck and is a pain to get use to. But so far I don't know of any other treatments for Sleep Apnea. Sorry

Hello Barbie_WA I will send you my prays. That is the best I can do. I wish I could help you as much as I could help myself. If I find any help I will let you know. I will say a little pray for us both.

I lost the gas in my home.. and the lights are next... I need money and help bad and dont know where to go I am getting ill from worry.

Hello I am a 33 year old mother of 3. They are 16,10,4 I stuggle so much I am starting to wonder why bother. I need work and help paying off the gas and eletric bills. The gas bill has been shut off for a while now and I have asked for help and what was given from welfare was not enought. It is going to get cold soon.I am in desperate need of $5,000. to get me back on my feet and pay off the gas, eletric and a few others bill. Please I really dont know what more to do. thank you lee1973lee@comcast.net

TT and Ke I have found there is not alot of Real help in this world. I have 3 kids, No gas, and soon no eletric also. I have not worked in over 10 years trying to raise my kids right and all it has gotten me is a butt load of bills that I can never get paid off. I have gotten to the point I am think about leaving my husbans and seeing if he wants to let some one adopt our kid. We can not afford to raise them. And it is not fair to them that they go with out Gas ( hot water & heat ) I have been getting panic attacks lately and feel soo losted. How am I going to get a job. I have no car, and have no skills. God must hate me, cus I do.